Just after I typed in my previous post about procrastinating to call my Grandma...
I picked up my HP to call her up.. hoping that she has not gone to bed...8 plus
At the sound of her voice.... I felt a sense of warmth filling my heart.
Nope.. i did not wake her up.. but realised that I missed her a lot.
She was eating fruits at the time of my call...
My Grandma.. so much memories rose in my head.
The lady whom looked after me and my bro when we were young.. together with my 2 cousins..
The 4 of us would always hide in her bedroom while she was always busy with making something for us to eat in the kitchen....We were all so chubby under her care..
The 4 of us would be dancing on her bed, make believe we were holding a concert.. having fans & encores, jumping on the mattess... using her bolster as a mic. At the end of the day, her bed was always in a big mess.. and she would mumble/ scream or shake her head. hahah
I still recall snatching her bolster from her in the middle of the night.. then she would try to snatch back from me when she thought i was in deep sleep.. and it would go on and on.
I still recall i was always so angry with her for me being late for kindergaten. Always the last to reach and had to stand in front of the line. Unable to line in pair with a guy I had a crush on.. Yeah.. i think i grew up fast .. haha But yet, each time she would be in time to pick me up....not letting me play at the play ground before we head home.
I still recall she would always scold my uncles when they secretly bought ice cream for us to eat... braving up against my Grandma's scolding.. so she strongly believed that small kids should not eat ice cream...
I still recall clearly once when she was bathing and i sat on her dressing table with a pair of scissors and began trimming my fringe. The feeling of cutting hair was so shiok that i realised i was left with almost 1.5cm of fringe, she almost fainted and was so worried bout how my mum would react when she saw me.
Another incident was when she brought me to the doctor. I hated it so much coz i knew it meant i had to take medicine, so when the doctor tried to put the stethoscope on my chest.. i kicked him hard in his balls.. and no.. i didnt knew why it hurt so much or that was a different part from my body at that time. Except that the doc looked seriously pissed and my grandma was so alarmed that she kept on "soli soli soli!!!"
I recall that whenever i visit her, she always cooks up a feast and forced me to finish the food (even when i turned up unannouced so that I can escape eating for 3pax's share,I'm not over-exaggerating, she'll always find something from the fridge, drawers, cupboards,to cook), she'll not let me do the dishes so that i will stay longer saying to wait for her to finish washing.. and she'll rewash & rewash & rewash till close to very late into the night.
Or when she complains that I dun bring her out for walks, but each time we arranged and i was on the bus reaching her house, she'll say "aiya...ah mah headache, cannot go out.. other day la.. u go home okie?" Aarrrggghhh!!!
While we chatted, i described at length to her how my house look like.. as she has never been here.. she missed it during Chinese New Year as she had to wait up for an aunt to visit her while the rest of my relatives came over...
I told her about my experience with putting on braces, how i realised that only at 26 years old, learnt that my baby teeth was still firmly intact in my gums.. the pulling of 4 teeth, the surgery of an embedded tooth while she balked at the price of extracting a teeth cost 40 while she had hers extracted at only 15... All the while she kept chiding me for not telling her so that she could brew some nourishing chinese herbal soup for the blood i lost.
She chided me for not learning how to cook from her or watch her cook while i was staying with her when she learnt from me that most of the time, it is my husband who cooks for me.
Saying that a girl should know how to cook well and look after the family. I felt embarassed...
I remember she cooked very well.. loved her curry fish head, her fried omelettes, stirred fried veg, fish porridge, etc etc... It saddens me that when i told her i missed those dishes she cooked, she told me she could no longer cook that well.. coz of her migraine and aching arms and legs..
We chatted for almost 3 hrs.. my HP was so hot against my ear...and she started nagging that I have not bathed... its so late now.. cannot wash hair... at night cannot wash hair... wait next time old will have a lot of headaches..next time dun so late then bath.. remember ah.. dun so late bath next time.. aiyo.. why so late haven bath... next time bath le then call me.. and anytime can call me.. i dun sleep so early. dun worry.. dun so late bath ah.. dun wash hair at night ah... blah blah blah" (yes.. she's very repetitive.. super) The hangup routine takes about 10 mins each time.
To my grandma,
I hope you'll not grow old so fast... i miss the days even when i felt u were so strict and naggy and nearly wanted to strangle you. hahah
I wanna bring you to see my house for yourself soon so that you wun need to imagine.
Okie, I shall set it to next week or the week after next!
Its a MUZ DO ! I hope she'll not put me aeroplane.